3weeks ago i had my cotillion(sixteen birthday party)we each had to get an escort and have a spotlight dance.while i was going crazy looking for and escort steven was doing this(steven is a complete stranger well no he goes to my school but i never talked to him)steven was looking for the owner of a pink tote.he looking inside to see if there was an ID in it but there wasnt.there was a learners permit,23.54$,and a navy chocolate cell phone.he went threw the contacts list and dialed HOME.i answered.he told that he had found a purse.i told him tho come over and he did.in a few hours after talkin i asked him if he wanted to be my escort to my party and he said yes.during our spotlight dance he kissed me and ran off.i tried lookin for him at school but i didnt find him.later i found out he was hit by a car right after my party and had died.i sit at stevens grave night and day saying “i love you” i never leave the grave literally. should i stop tryin to bring him back to life or not?
whoa whoa whoa i dont need therapy!

actually it makes no sense trying to bring him back to life because you cant , he is already gone and you need to accept that although you love him you can stay around weeping for every you need to move on
Yes because it’s not like you two knew each other all your lives and had a love affair going. I think if it’s that extreme you need to seek out some therapy to help you move on. Good luck.
i think that you should understand that Steven past away. that is out of your control. you cannot stop it, you cannot reverse it. Steven should be living your memories and nothng more. unfortunately, you cannot stop time and live on that moment. you have to move on.
take care